Friday, October 29, 2010
I had to take some time away from blogging so BF and I could work out some kinks in private. I was really struggling...I didn't want this to be a fun game we were playing. It needs to be real.
Even though I wasn't writing, I was reading...alot.
I found some things around here that were really helpful in getting BF and I on track and helping us to figure out how to make this work for us.
The first post I found that was really helpful was over at Finding Sara. Who knew that a simple change of wording would work so well for me?
Another post that helped was one of Mick's at Husbandly Touch. BF agreed that we also needed to deal with our 'slippages'.
Something else that I found was a PDF file on Scribd. It's called 'A Beginner's Guide to Leadership and Submission'. The user there who uploaded it also has a number of other articles on TTWD and here's a link to that directory if you're interested.
We've decided to implement the 21 day 'bootcamp'...modified for our own relationship of course. We started this yesterday and so far it seems to be working well for us. I'll keep you posted!