tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.comments2022-10-25T05:30:55.991-06:00Devoted Princessdevoted princesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-62467311081914811232011-10-17T18:54:04.137-06:002011-10-17T18:54:04.137-06:00That's a very beautiful post :)That's a very beautiful post :)Sarah Greighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00852039357115859543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-50902625517414404632010-12-21T09:43:59.888-07:002010-12-21T09:43:59.888-07:00I had found the boot camp info also, and passed it...I had found the boot camp info also, and passed it on to my husband. We're talking about how to implement it here; I think it would be very useful for us. We struggle with J's natural laid back personality; I'm finding that I crave strong control, and that's very different for him. Hope the boot camp worked for you both and you're finding yourselves in TTWD.Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12878371089775526701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-24331687303129050922010-12-07T18:20:40.755-07:002010-12-07T18:20:40.755-07:00As I count, the 21 days are over. Are you still t...As I count, the 21 days are over. Are you still there? I am concerned about you and your relationship. Be kind to each other and talk a lot. Best wishesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-39599931436486559702010-11-21T03:21:38.623-07:002010-11-21T03:21:38.623-07:00Just wanted to welcome you to the community. Found...Just wanted to welcome you to the community. Found you by following from a referral from your blog. Hope bootcamp is going well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-13790992018051571812010-11-12T20:07:18.961-07:002010-11-12T20:07:18.961-07:00I'll be very interested to hear how boot camp ...I'll be very interested to hear how boot camp is going! I've shared the info on Leadership and Submission with Scott and we're supposed to discuss it this weekend. Best wishes to you!Georgiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00808144974719208390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-23993488058462061362010-11-01T20:53:32.945-06:002010-11-01T20:53:32.945-06:00B'Man: "Boot camp" is what it was i...B'Man: "Boot camp" is what it was intended to be. That in itself is rewarding. And you're very welcome. I assumed that if we found it interesting...that someone else might as well.<br /><br />Anon: I very much appreciate you checking back in with me!devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-35462591090357288632010-11-01T12:24:15.292-06:002010-11-01T12:24:15.292-06:00I kknew that you were struggling, so I am happy to...I kknew that you were struggling, so I am happy to see you back and feeling much better. I hope it continues to work for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-63885045053441609832010-11-01T10:12:54.741-06:002010-11-01T10:12:54.741-06:00Great website! I'm going to try it! organizin...Great website! I'm going to try it! organizing is my stress too! Thanks devoted princess!Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12317985562801639670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-21328903429023769982010-11-01T03:24:13.680-06:002010-11-01T03:24:13.680-06:00I hope the boot camp is going rewardingly. Thanks ...I hope the boot camp is going rewardingly. Thanks for the information on Leadership and Submission.B'Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05599204344217427087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-57001471343795288052010-10-29T14:30:41.236-06:002010-10-29T14:30:41.236-06:00FD: I agree...very good!
Jess: Yes...almost :)
...FD: I agree...very good!<br /><br />Jess: Yes...almost :)<br /><br />Anon: Thank you, and we've been doing alot of discussing in the last couple of weeks!devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-57545295836478075292010-10-19T17:34:47.693-06:002010-10-19T17:34:47.693-06:00My suggestion is that when you discuss this topic ...My suggestion is that when you discuss this topic with BF that you need to remind him that this is not supposed to be "torture" for you: Physical limits need to be discussed and your limits need to be established and respected. Otherwise, none of your needs will be met! There is more to this lifestyle than simply the acceptance of unacceptable pain by you!! Keep everything "positive."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-80316586140218878432010-10-18T17:53:36.679-06:002010-10-18T17:53:36.679-06:00Don't you love it when they say that you have ...Don't you love it when they say that you have nothing to worry about and everything will be fine? That's almost the sweetest words in the English language I think :)Surrendering Slowlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11784962100295255856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-32060608057948825422010-10-17T08:25:41.174-06:002010-10-17T08:25:41.174-06:00Good to hear your BF saying you are going to work ...Good to hear your BF saying you are going to work it all out.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-37242359023157353532010-10-15T14:13:08.663-06:002010-10-15T14:13:08.663-06:00Tammy: Thank you so much for the kind offer, I su...Tammy: Thank you so much for the kind offer, I suspect you'll be hearing from me often...<br /><br />Jess: It's heartening to know I'm not the only one struggling with these things!<br /><br />B'man: Thank you for the male point of view, your insight is always welcome!<br /><br />PS. BF informed me that he did not like this post. When I asked him why, he told me that I don't have anything to worry about, that everything will be fine, that everything is fine, and we'll make this work because it's important for me and for us. (Yay!)devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-53280250231165439482010-10-15T05:20:25.284-06:002010-10-15T05:20:25.284-06:00That's the paradox of ttwd. Sometime when you ...That's the paradox of ttwd. Sometime when you two are in a talking mood - not at spanking time - it's really okay to talk openly and honestly about these things and share your feelings. This helps us Tops "get a clue" about intensity and duration. I understand your concern about "topping from the bottom". It is good to be mindful of it. But also, communication is key with ttwd.B'Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05599204344217427087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-1151645467841785802010-10-14T17:05:34.958-06:002010-10-14T17:05:34.958-06:00I have been struggling with this too, I have felt ...I have been struggling with this too, I have felt like it wasn't long enough or hard enough; but that just seems so weird to say. Please spank me harder *L* plus it is him that says how long, hard or how often.Surrendering Slowlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11784962100295255856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-82651918467420455892010-10-14T15:13:07.381-06:002010-10-14T15:13:07.381-06:00TTWD is difficult. Submission for me can be even m...TTWD is difficult. Submission for me can be even more difficult! I have to remind myself that it is a gift! If you ever want to talk, e-mail me.<br />TammyTammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04621512697535075441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-19410852139746157482010-10-14T05:39:17.527-06:002010-10-14T05:39:17.527-06:00You're very welcome...I wish I knew a better w...You're very welcome...I wish I knew a better way than just deleting your blog and starting completely over...but that's what I had to do as well (although I was lucky, I had only two posts when I realized)devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-36434145377234674742010-10-13T20:22:25.593-06:002010-10-13T20:22:25.593-06:00I have been trying to use flylady also; it's p...I have been trying to use flylady also; it's pretty helpful. Thanks for your hints that you gave me this morning; I really appreciate your help :) Have fun with maintenance :)Surrendering Slowlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11784962100295255856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-185145512892247812010-10-13T06:56:57.409-06:002010-10-13T06:56:57.409-06:00Jess: I hope we're taking the right steps...t...Jess: I hope we're taking the right steps...ttwd is also very new for us. <br /><br />Mick: I wish BF would also write a blog so I could better understand his thoughts...but since he doesn't (and since we're talking more anyway), it's great to have blogs like yours and Babyman's so I can read a male perspective...<br /><br />and Best Friend(BF)/Husband - it's all the same thing really...devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-75893629628149863932010-10-13T05:25:41.627-06:002010-10-13T05:25:41.627-06:00Woops, I forgot your man was your BF. I really nee...Woops, I forgot your man was your BF. I really need to finish my coffee before I write.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-46441618409751235892010-10-13T05:24:44.843-06:002010-10-13T05:24:44.843-06:00I'm glad that your husband reads this blog. It...I'm glad that your husband reads this blog. It should be a big help to him for understanding where you're coming from.<br /><br />For what it's worth, we don't do maintenance spanking. There has to be a reason Lynda can understand before it is of help to her. But I know it helps lots of other couples.<br /><br />Like your husband, I feel a release too, when I spank.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-31583335582153243152010-10-12T20:49:58.694-06:002010-10-12T20:49:58.694-06:00sounds like you guys are taking the right steps; I...sounds like you guys are taking the right steps; I'm new to ttwd and it is just changing my life; my perspective, my happiness. My husband has really taken charge and it is so neat to have respectful feelings for him.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13271953705737072573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-7415910973597294622010-10-09T08:06:07.565-06:002010-10-09T08:06:07.565-06:00It's a small sampling...and I feel like I'...It's a small sampling...and I feel like I'm the fortunate one.devoted princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681541100266935605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3515113603552004219.post-2004464450009740832010-10-08T13:23:21.957-06:002010-10-08T13:23:21.957-06:00That's a very impressive list. He's very f...That's a very impressive list. He's very fortunate.B'Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05599204344217427087noreply@blogger.com